Phoebe Sue

Dear Phoebe Sue,

Today is your first birthday! I can’t believe that you have been with us for a whole year now!! What a joy and blessing it has been to watch you grow. I love being your mommy! You are such a happy baby. Always full of smiles and giggles. You adore your daddy and sister. You are crazy about circles and animals. You can say cat, dog, mama and dada. You don’t love to eat but you LOVE to nurse. You can stand for a few seconds and I think you’re almost ready to walk. You love music and clapping and you smile so big when Daddy plays his guitar for you. Sometimes you go pee pee in the potty too!

Today I’m watching you take a nap and I’m just overwhelmed with happiness.

I love you so much. I can’t help but think back on this day one year ago. I’d like to tell you the story of the day you came to be with us.

The day you were born, there was laughter in the air. We checked in at 5 in the morning and Daddy and I went to wait in the pre-op area. People were allowed to come visit as we waited for my operation. But for a lot of the time it was just me and Daddy. Daddy makes me laugh. It’s one of the things that I love most about him. That day was no different than any other in that regard. While I was being attended to by nurses he was finding ways to get me to giggle. And he was laughing too. The nurse even commented that she had never had someone laughing so much back there.

We laughed and talked and kissed. It was a beautiful moment for us. I was a little nervous but mostly I was excited. Your sister, Violet, was worried. She wasn’t sure about mommy having an operation. But I told her I would be just fine and soon she would be able to hold you.

When they came to take me back to the operating room, Daddy had to wait behind for a little while. We had to say goodbye in the hallway. I never ever like to say goodbye without a kiss from Daddy.

We kissed and he told me he loved me. Then they took me back to get my epidural. I was so nervous. I started shaking very hard and crying. I kept moving everytime the needle came close. I wanted your daddy. They wouldn’t let him come in yet though.

So I hugged the nurse. She told me to hug her as tightly as I wanted. So I did. I squeezed as hard as I could. Finally I was numb from the waist down and they let your daddy come back to me.

He kissed me through the mask he was wearing and held my hand. I wish I could remember what he said but I can tell you just holding his hand and looking into his eyes made me feel so much better.

The doctors were so careful and quick and suddenly you were here. I couldn’t wait to see you and hear your cry. My heart raced and I cried knowing you were waiting for your mama to hold you.

Your daddy held you first. He was so amazed by you. I think he fell in love with you right that second!

At last, you were with us and my heart felt like it grew 100 times bigger. I couldn’t believe how beautiful you were. Everyone said the same. You were perfect!

I held you on my chest and you were so strong. You actually lifted your tiny head and moved it to my breast! You nursed right away. Your daddy and I were so surprised! You nursed for a while as they stitched me up and then you went back to daddy’s arms.

He held you and also made sure I was ok too. You have a very thoughtful and kind father.


Everyone couldn’t wait to see you. Especially your sister!

We stayed in recovery for about an hour and I held you most of the time. Sometimes daddy held you too. You learned how to breastfeed very quickly. You were perfect in every way. It was an amazing day filled with so much love.

“We made you, my darling, with the love in each of our hearts. We were a family, my darling, right from the start.”

Phoebe, you are our rainbow baby. We waited for you. We prayed for you. You are our dream come true little one.


I can’t imagine our lives without you. Thank you for letting me be your mommy. Thank you for making me smile every single day.

We pray that you grow strong and healthy and always know that you are loved.

Forever love,


Delivery Photos credit to Marsha M. Mason

5 thoughts on “Phoebe Sue

  1. Wow, congratulations!! I didn’t even know you’ve been pregnant again as I didn’t receive any blog update from you for a looong time! So glad you’re all fine and your family has been growing meanwhile. And how sweet she is, such a cute baby! I’m in love! Are you still living in Japan? The pictures are amaaazing! So much love!

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